Sitted Goat Congress

Overview

Chest to chest and breath to breath, this one is more about surrender than speed. A slow rocking union for lovers who want to feel every inch of closeness.

Guide Details

The Seated Goat Congress is a classic Kama Sutra position built entirely around closeness and shared weight. Both partners face each other and hold on, creating a rocking, breathing, almost meditative form of sex where the connection between the two bodies is the center of everything. It is as intimate as it gets.

How to do it:

The partner with the penis or dildo sits cross-legged or with legs extended forward on the bed or floor. The partner with the vagina or anus sits in their lap facing them, wrapping their legs around their partner's waist and their arms around their neck or shoulders. The partner on top eases down and both partners hold each other for support. The motion is a slow, shared rocking — hips rolling forward and back together — rather than any kind of thrusting. Both partners breathe together, and the closeness of the face-to-face, chest-to-chest position means kissing and whispering are constant companions.

Where to do it:

The floor with a blanket or cushion is perfect for the grounded, centered feeling this position creates. A bed also works. Make sure the bottom partner can sit comfortably for a sustained period.

Lily's Tips

• Try matching your breathing — inhale together, exhale together. This synchronized breath in this position has an almost overwhelming effect on the intimacy of the moment.
• Hold each other as tightly as you can and rock slowly. The pressure of two bodies locked together like this is its own kind of intensity — no thrusting required.
• Whisper something you have never said out loud before. The Seated Goat Congress is the kind of position that unlocks that kind of courage.
• Try it by candlelight. The combination of the position, the closeness, and the atmosphere creates something genuinely unforgettable.