Bridge

Overview

An exposed arch, trembling muscles, and a penetration that lands exactly where it should. Vulnerability becomes the aphrodisiac here.

Guide Details

This is a position to hit the G-spot and A-spot from a beautiful angle. This position falls in the category of sexercise because it is very exhausting for the little perv on top. Think of this position as a cocktail of gentle touches, passionate kisses, burning eyes, and unsatisfied desires. Arching the back like that can make you feel very exposed and vulnerable — and that vulnerability is the point. If you do it correctly, you are going to drink that cocktail together.

How to do it:

The partner with the vagina or anus kneels over their partner with their feet on either side, facing away or toward depending on the variation. They arch their back into a bridge pose, resting weight on their palms or elbows behind them. The partner with the penis or dildo lies below, guiding the entry and using their hands to support the hips of the arching partner. Starting slow is essential as the angle can feel intense immediately. Using the elbows instead of the hands makes the position significantly more comfortable and easier to hold.

Where to do it:

A yoga mat on the floor gives the arching partner support without slipping. The bed works well too — placing a pillow under the bottom partner's hips helps angle the entry better.

Lily's Tips

• Rest on your elbows instead of your hands — your back and wrists will thank you and you can hold the position twice as long.
• The partner below can use a free hand to trace light fingernails up the exposed belly and ribs of the arching partner. That vulnerability mixed with gentleness is electric.
• Add a dom and sub element: the partner standing over has total visual control and can decide the pace entirely.
• Don't push into it hard at first. The angle is very direct — let both of you ease in slowly until it feels natural, then let it build.