Scissor

Overview

Two bodies crossing, rubbing, trapping each other in a tight intimate geometry. A position that can feel playful, hungry, and deeply connected all at once.

Guide Details

Scissor is not only for partners with vulvas and it is not only for lesbians. This variation with face-to-face connection is the best for clitoral stimulation and a surprisingly intimate experience. The interlock of the legs, the slow grinding, and the direct eye contact make this one of the most electrically charged positions in the collection.

How to do it:

Both partners lie on their sides facing each other. The partner with the penis or dildo enters from below, with their partner's top leg resting over their hip. The partners interlock their legs like open scissors — one leg forward, one back — which creates a stable, connected base for grinding motion. Neither partner needs to thrust hard — the rocking of the hips against each other, the friction of bodies, and the clitoral contact are what drives this one. For clitoral stimulation, placing a small bullet vibrator between the two bodies is highly effective. The partner on top can also bend toward their partner so your faces meet.

Where to do it:

Any soft flat surface works: bed, floor with a blanket, or even a large sofa. The position is relaxed enough for long sessions.

Lily's Tips

• Place a small bullet vibrator between the two bodies at the clitoris. The grinding motion of both partners moves it around — the sensation is very hard to describe in a good way.
• If both partners have vulvas, the scissoring motion rubbing them together is the whole experience. Add plenty of lube on the thighs and it becomes extraordinary.
• Slow down. This position is not about hard thrusting — it is about a sustained, rolling grind that builds heat very quietly and then hits very suddenly.
• Bend toward each other until your foreheads touch. Maintaining that contact through the whole experience shifts it from physical to something almost meditative.