Bizet

Overview

Spooning, whispering, kissing the neck, and letting tenderness melt into sex. One of the sweetest ways to begin and one of the hardest to leave.

Guide Details

Bizet is one of the most tender positions in the collection. It mixes the warmth of a spooning embrace with the intimacy of kissing and whispering against the neck of someone you want. Perfect for starting slowly, for mornings when nothing needs to be rushed, and for those nights when tenderness and passion need to share the same space.

How to do it:

Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction — the partner with the penis or dildo is behind, the partner with the vagina or anus is in front. The partner behind wraps an arm around their lover and enters from behind in the classic spooning position. Entry is smooth and the penetration level is easy to control. The hands of the partner behind are completely free to caress the breasts, clitoris, neck, hips, and belly of the partner in front. Tilting the top hip slightly upward or downward adjusts the angle and stimulation. Kissing the neck and shoulders of the partner in front is effortless from this position.

Where to do it:

The bed is perfect — this is the ideal morning or night position. A sofa works too. Any horizontal surface where both partners can lie side by side comfortably for extended time.

Lily's Tips

• Whisper something in a very low voice directly into the ear of the partner in front. In the quiet of Bizet, that closeness of breath and words is completely disarming.
• The partner behind should use their free hand to trace slow circles on the clitoris during the early stages — there is no rush here and the build-up is the whole point.
• Don't stop kissing the back of the neck and shoulders. For many people this is the most sensitive area, and in this position it is completely open to you.
• Try this as a transition from sleep — waking someone up gently in Bizet is one of the most beautiful things you can do. Always make sure your partner is comfortable with being woken that way.