Fingering I

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Here is an introduction to fingering, various moments where you can apply it and take your partner to heaven. You’ll learn to identify the G-spot and the A-spot, how to simulate a penetration with fingering and very fundamental tips.

Drive your partner mad with this knowledge about fingering.

Fingering is the act of using and inserting your fingers in the vagina to provoke pleasure and stimulate your partner. Fingering is one of the many things we can do when having sex. It is amazing, for you and your partner. Imagination is the only limit. As lovers, we need to develop our imagination and devote time to improve our sex life. Every part of the labia and the inner vagina is sensitive to touching and stimulus, and there are many different ways you can use your fingers.

The first important thing to know is that everybody is different and likes different things. With time, you may also change your tastes. As humans, we are always changing. There are things which may feel better at certain times than others. Every aspect of a time in your life defines the outcome of your desires.

Fingering can happen everywhere, for instance, at the movie theater. Rarely, but not impossible, it may happen in the trunk of a car when all your friends are distracted while returning from a field trip. It may also happen behind the blankets, on a beer night with roommates or in the privacy of bed. Usually, it can happen at the end of your first date. Let’s review some detailed examples of wise moments to use your fingers.
The following are some specific examples. They may not be the same scenarios you encounter, but the idea is for you to understand them. Without further ado, lets begin the story.

Imagine that you and your partner are about to watch a movie, naked, in the bedroom. You asked your partner to search and choose the movie you two are going to watch. Your partner starts crawling and goes to the laptop, searching for the perfect title to watch together. This may take some time, so you sneak behind. Your partner happens to be in doggy position, distracted looking for the movie.

You place a hand, slowly caressing the skin of your partner’s lower back, while bringing your other hand near the vagina. Praising their ass and pussy. You grab the vagina with your whole hand and feel it’s warmth, slowly inserting your thumb while your palm starts to make contact with the clitoris and labia. At this point, your partner will find it hard to concentrate and search for the movie.

Simulating penetration


You arc the thumb to feel the G-spot and rub it. You gently move all your other fingers around the clitoris and labia. As you do this, match some moans with your mouth, inviting her to do the same. Then, you can slowly turn your hand the other way. So your thumb will now be facing up, touching the floor of the vagina. You start by pressing it, pushing upwards. Slowly but firm. This simulates penetration, the harder you press, the bigger the simulated cock your partner feels. You will press and then, release. Very slowly. Your partner now, if done right, may be begging for you to fuck their brains out.

These are just two ways to finger a vagina. Focusing on the G-spot and the bottom of the vagina. Another way of stimulating the G-spot is to stick your fingers in (it doesn’t matter which finger, if your finger gets tired, it will be wise to change it). Rub the back of the clitoris from the inside. One way do this is by making a ¨Come here¨ sign with your index finger (or any other finger) to rub the top of the vagina (everything that your finger touch while doing it). You may get lost here, these are two points that evoke lots of pleasure.

Minimal Erotic illustration of a hand simulating penetration while fingering a pussy from Lily Erotic
The middle and ring finger are pushing upwards to the flor of the vagina.

The G-spot and the A-spot

The G-spot and the A-spot. The G-spot is just behind the clitoris, on the inside. The A-spot is further back on top-near the cervix.

The key to rub the G-spot is to enter your finger, but as close as the inner wall in direction to your palm. So you start entering and go up, not the further front but further up. You insert your entire finger in, and as if closing your hand (or doing the ‘come on’ sign) you bring it to the wall at the back of the clitoris and rub it up and out. If you only insert your finger but go further on and rub up, you will reach the A-Spot. This one is also very pleasurable.

Fingering the G-spot, location of A-Spot LilyErotic


Another example of a moment. It is your anniversary. You have not seen your partner for a while and want to make them come as many times as you can, even though it does not depend entirely on you. So, you have been kissing for a while, you have already kissed their whole body. Even behind their knees. Then you go down to the vagina. Start kissing the belly button, the inner thighs, licking the sides of the labia, rubbing the ass cheeks, and fixing your gaze upon your partner’s eyes.

Fingering couple that is kissing


You slowly lick your finger and then rub it on their inner thighs. You bring up the lubricant and pour it over their thighs, just three drops of lubricant. Don’t exaggerate. Massage the thigh with lubricant forward and backward very slowly while you kiss near the vagina. That is how you build lots of tension, instead of going straight to the clitoris. You have planed this way. Lubricating every part of your finger slowly rubbing on the thigh. You bring it to the entrance of the vagina. Insert just the tip. Pull it out. Repeat. As many times you want while staring directly into your partner’s eyes.

You slowly insert more of it and decide to put a second finger in. You pull your finger out. Massage the thigh with lubricant so you moisturize your other finger. Then slowly insert it again but now there are two fingers. Slowly start rubbing the roof of the vagina, getting soft moans from your partner. You moan as well in pleasure for the smell of a clean and moist vagina. You use your tongue and start licking and kissing the labia. Playing next to the clitoris, just next to its side where you know your partner gets more pleasure from. You have learned this because your partner told you so.

Your fingers are in continuous motion. You don’t speed it up, but you do it harder. Pressing more and moving your partner’s body. Your mouth is kissing and breathing slowly on top of the clitoris. You have been doing the ¨C’mon¨ sign for a while now, and you hear a watery sound while you rub the top of the vagina. She asks for more, but you won’t give it all immediately. You get into a more comfortable position without stopping. You are building your pace, taking your time to reach the desired speed. Without exhausting yourself (and if it’s not obvious, always asking directly: ‘Are you enjoying this?’). Then, as you speed up, you will hear the watery sound more and more…

Soon afterwards, your partner comes very, very hard. The vagina is squirting while you are moving your whole arm. All of your fingers are tired and so is your mouth, but you continue while your partner screams in pleasure. At this moment you feel amazing. You loved the intense massage you gave to your partner’s full body, as you know it is the whole reason for the squirting. Your partner is thanking and hugging you, telling you that they have never squirted before and that they have loved everything about it. Finally, you position for the next orgasm you have planned on taking from your partner…


If you are a little lost when rubbing the clitoris, you may copy some of the motions your partner does while masturbating. You can use your both hands too. Remember that you can rub, caress, pinch, grab, scratch, rotate, contract, tap, spank, slap, massage, twirl, stretch, etc. All these actions feel different in different parts of her pussy. Even tapping the pussy is a great way of having blood flow through the clitoris. The limit is your imagination, also, your partner’s consent. No means no.

Extra techniques


One technique you can apply is: inserting two fingers at once but moving them separately. Put your fingers vertically, move them horizontally and each pushing the other way. One finger rubs the top of the vagina and the other pushes the bottom. It may be a little tricky but your partner is going to feel great. Remember that if you want to introduce another finger, you should take your fingers out first and then insert your fingers again but now with the new finger.

Anal Fingering


There are many ways and moments in which fingering becomes the best option. There is fingering for the anus as well. One technique is trying to hit the A-spot but from down below. Pressing just below the belly, just before the bone. You can do double penetration too and trying to go all the way in hitting the A-spot. While fingering the vagina, the anus, and pressing just below the belly button. You are going to make your partner dream about it.
If you want to try anal fingering, I suggest that you lubricate a lot. Cleanliness is a very important factor here. Also, work with your partner’s mood, talk about it first, dirty talk about it too. A black kiss may be a good idea to get your partner more relaxed. You can imagine now how to create a good moment and ambient for this.

After getting coconut flavored lubricant, you fill the room with roses and light three candles. Your partner, who just shaved, comes out of the shower. Lots have passed. You just finished giving a wet kiss on your partner’s little bum. You kissed their cheeks, rubbed them and gently slapped them, making your partner feel amazing. Now you slowly insert the tip of your lubricated finger inside. It’s very tight. You ask your partner to press your fingers with the muscles inside their little hole. Then you ask to release the muscles, then advance slowly in. Very slowly. You ask how your partner is feeling. They tell you they are good.

Now, you repeat the process very slowly. Going just a little deeper and asking your partner to contract their muscles and then release. You get in a little more… you know how this ends. With lots of kisses in the butt cheeks after a hardcore orgasm and a quick shower. Remember to enjoy the ride, not the destination.

If your partner has a penis. You can use one hand to jerk the penis and the other to finger their bum. Also, you may use your mouth in every possible way you can.

Conclusion

By all accounts, and with proven result, it will be no wonder that you are going to surprise your partner with these new skills and tips. Securing one or maybe more orgasms. Who knows, even squirting. You’ll know soon that rubbing the G-spot, playing with the clitoris, simulating penetration, pushing the A-spot and anal fingering are some of the all time essential and favorites of everyone.

Fingering is just one aspect of a healthy sexual relationship. Remember that you must learn what works and what doesn’t. Your partner may change their mind about some things, so always talk about it. Also, innovate and learn new ways of doing it.


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